For two years, Song Weilan volunteered as the group-buying organizer in her company's chat group, paying upfront for her coworkers, hauling goods, and dividing orders into individual packages without ever keeping score. Everything she had done was instantly forgotten when a newcomer, Jiang Qing, took over the group-buying chat by enticing everyone with prices 30% lower. When Weilan postponed her medical checkup to help collect parcels and haul goods, leaving her with three days of back pain, her coworkers could only say how wonderful she was. But when she refused to help just once, they immediately accused her of becoming cold-hearted. After being blamed unfairly and facing a joint complaint, Song Weilan finally understood that the price of pleasing everyone was losing herself.