The first time going to my boyfriend's home, right before leaving, his mother suddenly claimed that a thirty-thousand-yuan gold bracelet was missing, with every word hinting that I was a thief. I called the police on the spot, but surveillance footage captured the process of her personally stuffing the bracelet into my bag. A phrase of 'just wanted to try you out' made me see clearly the first test question of this marriage. As problems regarding the three gold pieces and the joint account surfaced one after another, the boyfriend of two years actually tried to persuade me again and again to make concessions for the sake of 'one family.' Yet I grew up amid the arguments of grandma, mom, and sister-in-law, and I understand best how to distinguish reason from grievance. Since you all want to find someone to arbitrate, then please let my three 'teachers' take the stage together!