She once compromised repeatedly for harmony, letting her principles and bottom lines regarding her health be tested over and over, almost paying a heavy price. After walking through those twisted days, she finally understood that blindly swallowing grievances cannot buy true respect. Only by loving herself well first could she better embrace life. She began putting her own feelings first, standing shoulder to shoulder with her lover to guard the boundaries of life, living out her days smoothly and freely, becoming the person she loved most.